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  1. I struggle so much with lending anything to anyone. So many bad experiences: video games with several cds where I only got back half of the cds or all scratched. People denying that I gave them something. Ugh. Some people seem to take it so easily and I – just like you – feel always so bad when I have to borrow something.
    xxx

  2. I struggle so much with lending anything to anyone. So many bad experiences: video games with several cds where I only got back half of the cds or all scratched. People denying that I gave them something. Ugh. Some people seem to take it so easily and I – just like you – feel always so bad when I have to borrow something.
    xxx

  3. I know this feeling too well! I have leant money and never asked for it back – when it was well overdue – because I’m too embarrassed and too polite. You’re right, you got to protect yourself in these circumstances and only be generous with those you really trust and would do the same for you X X X

    • Sorry, I’ve just seen this! I completely agree that you have to look out for yourself. It’s such an awkward situation to be in, and I’m the same, always too embarrassed to ask for it back. Writing this post helped me realise how bad of a pattern it had become for me so hopefully it will help others with ideas on how to deal with it xx

  4. I know this feeling too well! I have leant money and never asked for it back – when it was well overdue – because I’m too embarrassed and too polite. You’re right, you got to protect yourself in these circumstances and only be generous with those you really trust and would do the same for you X X X

    • Sorry, I’ve just seen this! I completely agree that you have to look out for yourself. It’s such an awkward situation to be in, and I’m the same, always too embarrassed to ask for it back. Writing this post helped me realise how bad of a pattern it had become for me so hopefully it will help others with ideas on how to deal with it xx

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